So it comes with a tool to remove the links. It’s a bit tedious, but once you get the hang of it, it’s not bad. The issue is that with Apple Watch, it needs to be snug so removing links to fit you also makes it more difficult to close the clasp with the way it’s designed. It still fits me, but it pinches a little when I close it. After closure, it’s fine.I have not had it long so can’t speak to wear and tear yet.It is heavy and a little bulky, but I believe it’s because I’m used to the silicone bands that are so light weight. It does, however weigh down on my charger station and has fallen off from the magnet. If you are laying flat on charger, you won’t have issue.It is feminine in my opinion and a nice, dressier change for a watch band without being too much.